Friday, April 2, 2010

Question of the Day: Is it a problem if one person is always the initiator of sex, well into the relationship?

This is another suggested question from a follower and I believe it speaks for itself, however, I'm fairly certain most of us have experienced this at one time or another. You're in a serious, committed relationship and it seems the initiation of intimacy is completely one-sided. What do you do?


  1. This is a sensitive area.I found a conversation about this issue 95%brings success and an added level of pleasure to lovemaking.It is key to remember that not everyone is comfortable with their own sexual desires so to initiate is something they need to learn but do not want to appear as a failure in their lovers eyes.My recommendation is to have that conversation and teach your partner the best way to initiate intimacy in a non threatening way. You will both will enhance your lovemaking and initimate moments for many more pleasurable experiences....Good Luck and Relax.......

  2. I am the initiator 97% of the time I think, and although I don't mind, I sure would like to feel more wanted from time to time.

    That said, how do you all initiate it? And how would you like your significant other to initiate it?