Thursday, June 10, 2010

Question of the Day: How do you feel when your S/O has HOT friends of the opposite sex?

You're out dinner with your wonderful new significant other enjoying a nice, relaxing conversation when you hear their name called out from across the room.  Up walks this gorgeous creature who greets your partner in a long, warm embrace.  After you are introduced to Mr./Ms. Universe, they turn back to each other and chit-chat over surface topics for several more minutes.  Once the hottie pattottie exits stage left, your stunned, deer-caught-in-the-headlights look immediately alarms your partner who reassures you that this acquaintence was "just a friend" and that you have absolutely nothing to worry about.

So, my question is, when your mate has hot friends of the opposite sex, how do you feel?  Is it your nature to feel inferior, threatened or insecure when your S/O has gorgeous friends?  Or do you feel complimented and reassured because, my gosh, if they "hang out" with such 10's, that must mean you're one too?  Perhaps you feel a combination of both?  When, however, do friendships of the opposite sex with a partner cross the line?

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